Aging Gracefully On Here  

Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 1:54 pm
Aging Gracefully On Here


I reactivated my account a few months ago. Re did my profile,added some recent pics, all from this summer. Did the search thing, sent out some messages to those around me that seemed interesting. I've been here off and on before, so I settled in for the wait. What was funny, was after a week or so I got a email, that stated, "I've turned you in for being a bot. Your pictures don't match your stated age. "

BIG NOTE HERE. At the time, I did have my correct age listed.

I replied back with, what are you talking about? No reply. Never heard anything from Customer Service, so figured it was a fluke. Then about a month ago, I get two more. Both calling me a fake, a bot. One stated they could tell from my message that I wasn't real. LOL For anyone who has read one of my blog posts, it's pretty obvious, I'm not a man of a few words.

So I decided to play. I have been rethinking what it is I'm looking for anyway, so figured I really didn't care at this point if anyone could find me in a search. So I changed my age to 96. Seemed like a good age. And I'm thinking, cool, this will put me out of the search range. I can have some time to just get my head around what I want, and not have to put up a ....Not looking at this time... banner on my profile.

I promised at the time I would do a follow up post about how changing my age to 96 would affect my time here. Pretty much forgot about it, but since someone reminded me.."rolls eyes", you know who you are. I decided it was time.

Things did not go as I planned. haha. I actually had more women and couples trying to IM me. Had quite a few messages, wanting to know how old I really was. My favorite, and she'll remain nameless in case she reads this, though I've never seen her on the blog, was something like.

Wow, you look really good for your age. What's your secret. I'd like to know more about you. yada yada......I think she's joking of course, so I respond back with something about the fountain of youth, that I stopped aging years ago. Then at the end, told her my real age. She responds back with, oh, well you shouldn't lie on your profile, that wasn't very nice.

I didn't even have the heart to reply back.

So I'm thinking some people don't really use the age parameter in their search. Some really don't care. Hell maybe some just really like the idea of the old geezer, who's about to kick the bucket and wonder if i have any money to leave.

Things it didn't change.

I still get messages, flirts and IM's from those lovely ladies in their 20's, who think I am hot, want me to move them down to Texas, and promise, "Just real woman, not game playing".

Still didn't help me decide what the hell I want. Or help me find someone that interests me that isn't 1700 miles away. Even in my new age bracket.

Was wondering though, do you put a specific age bracket on your preferences? Do you follow it no matter what? Have you broken it either way, older or younger?

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 1:59 pm

I've broken my lower age parameter twice. And pretty much regretted it both times.

With the way my new thought process is going, I'm thinking my age parameter would be no more than 10 years on either side of me.

Actually now days, age doesn't seem to be the biggest obstacle. It's that damn distance parameter I complained about in a earlier post.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


bitchkitty2017 65F  
905 posts
9/17/2018 2:17 pm

awww sweetheart that is so sad but you know if someone goes on your profile and sees the age you have on there and comments about things like " lying " they obviously don't know enough to see its a fun thing and not a serious thing you do..Ass holes are on here every minute and they are not worth a second thought..I know you are real we have had some good conversations and you are probably more real than anyone on here ..you are kind considerate and a real gentleman..I admire any man that is diverse as you are...Hon distance is a big factor cause If it wasn't I be all over you like white on rice, believe that !


Wonder167 51F  
463 posts
9/17/2018 2:21 pm

If only we could all own a jet. lol

I don't have a specific age range, but like you, find the younger one's just aren't for me. Yet, I find a lot of people play games and I don't have time. I would think men that are older, would feel the same, but they don't. Of course, some might look at my profile, see I'm attached and feel I'm not worthy of respect or honesty. I guess it's an oxymoron....I should expect no less than to be treated like a slut.

I hope you figure out what works for you and find it before you get too close to that 96 mark.


yesmamallthetime 51F  
9308 posts
9/17/2018 2:31 pm

I agree with bitchkitty. Distance is a big factor. Otherwise a lot of us female bloggers would be on you like white on rice. LoL. I'm going to have to use that in a poem. Thank you for that phrase bitchkitty. ☺️.

My usual parameters are 13 years older or younger. I have gone younger a few times. I was curious about stamina. Which to tell you the truth can be found in older men along with affection between intervals. Lol I had a very persistent 32 year old firefighter after me. I wish he were older we could have had a great time as he is the biggest flirt ..which is very flattering. Haha.

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Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 2:35 pm

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    awww sweetheart that is so sad but you know if someone goes on your profile and sees the age you have on there and comments about things like " lying " they obviously don't know enough to see its a fun thing and not a serious thing you do..Ass holes are on here every minute and they are not worth a second thought..I know you are real we have had some good conversations and you are probably more real than anyone on here ..you are kind considerate and a real gentleman..I admire any man that is diverse as you are...Hon distance is a big factor cause If it wasn't I be all over you like white on rice, believe that !
Well thank you, those were kind words indeed. I really just try to be honest in life and on here. I never understand why some find that hard..well besides the cheaters. haha.

And thanks for the other compliment on the distance. That distance thing is kicking my ass right now.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Naughtypursuit 51F  
1420 posts
9/17/2018 2:44 pm

I have age parameters in my cupid preferences but generally I dont actively search, I tend to wait and see what comes my way and decide from there. Having said that I have gone 20 years older ( when I was 30) and within last few years 15 years younger. There is a young man on here who is 30 who really intrigues me, we have chatted and texted for quite a while, I have not as yet taken the plunge. There has to be that personality click first and foremost.


superbjversion2 63F  
12797 posts
9/17/2018 2:45 pm

My search parameter is set for 10 younger and 5 older.
My profile only states an younger parameter.

I have been known to make exceptions because sometimes you just have to.

I put the Sex in Sexagenarian


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 2:46 pm

    Quoting Wonder167:
    If only we could all own a jet. lol

    I don't have a specific age range, but like you, find the younger one's just aren't for me. Yet, I find a lot of people play games and I don't have time. I would think men that are older, would feel the same, but they don't. Of course, some might look at my profile, see I'm attached and feel I'm not worthy of respect or honesty. I guess it's an oxymoron....I should expect no less than to be treated like a slut.

    I hope you figure out what works for you and find it before you get too close to that 96 mark.
Maybe we need to all pitch in and just get a jet on a time share.

Yeah, the younger thing just doesn't meet what I'm looking for these days..that much I know. Just had a second date week before last with someone I met offline. She's great, but turns out she's 34..and want's to start a family. I'm a little past that age. LOL.

I'm big on honesty. I'm honest, and it's a big deal that others are honest with me. Just hard to build some trust with anyone you catch lying to you.

Hell, I'll be 97 in March

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


positively4you 69F  
2853 posts
9/17/2018 2:48 pm

I do have an age brackett. Obviously he can’t be older than me. I have never been with a man older than me since my 20’s. Just worked that way but now, well, ahhh, hmmm........most are dead anyway.


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 2:53 pm

    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    I agree with bitchkitty. Distance is a big factor. Otherwise a lot of us female bloggers would be on you like white on rice. LoL. I'm going to have to use that in a poem. Thank you for that phrase bitchkitty. ☺️.

    My usual parameters are 13 years older or younger. I have gone younger a few times. I was curious about stamina. Which to tell you the truth can be found in older men along with affection between intervals. Lol I had a very persistent 32 year old firefighter after me. I wish he were older we could have had a great time as he is the biggest flirt ..which is very flattering. Haha.
I'll be looking for your next poem.. you know a lot of stuff rhymes with rice.

I'm sure it's different with men, just like everything. Hell look how much Viagra they sell. But I just don't see a difference in myself. And to be blunt, found women closer to my age that could run circles around a couple of younger ones I dated.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


dub11012 48M
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9/17/2018 3:00 pm

I don't have a set age range, but am generally attracted to people who are fit (for whatever their age), hwp and comfortable in their own skin. Confidence goes a long way, and I'm old enough, now to understand how the body (and its sexual responses) change over the years, sometimes in wonderfully surprising ways, sometimes . . . less so!


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 3:03 pm

    Quoting  :

Yeah, in my head I'm still in my 30s. I stay in pretty good shape, can work circles around some of workers who are in there 20s. hahaha. But dating, relationships is a different animal. I want someone who can relate to what I'm saying. Talk about things and they're not like...did he play with Justin Bieber?

Interesting comment on the distance part. Sort of makes my muddy water even less clear. Thanks.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 3:24 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    I have age parameters in my cupid preferences but generally I dont actively search, I tend to wait and see what comes my way and decide from there. Having said that I have gone 20 years older ( when I was 30) and within last few years 15 years younger. There is a young man on here who is 30 who really intrigues me, we have chatted and texted for quite a while, I have not as yet taken the plunge. There has to be that personality click first and foremost.
Yeah,, that's a big age gap.. But I think people should do what theyre comfortable with. it's just not for me.

That said, I have met some women my age that had the maturity of someone in their 20's. haha.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 3:36 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    My search parameter is set for 10 younger and 5 older.
    My profile only states an younger parameter.

    I have been known to make exceptions because sometimes you just have to.
I had that same philosophy for quite a while. Lately I've been changing thought patterns on a lot of stuff. Age was just one of them. I'm thinking the age thing for me is pretty locked down..

But you go get em tiger!!!

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 3:40 pm

    Quoting  :

I absolutely hate ...but I'd put up with Eminem if it involved watching you strip. Just saying....

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


redrockrascal 60M
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9/17/2018 3:42 pm

I think distance is a big factor and bigger than age. I tend to prefer women within about 10 years either way. However there are some about 15 younger here that might be interesting if they were available.

I got together with a woman from here who was 20 years younger. She contacted me after I looked at her profile we talked and she wanted to meet. We both knew it was just going to be a physical one time thing. It was but it was fun.

The song "Glory Day's" just came on - oddly appropriate.

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Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 3:42 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    I do have an age brackett. Obviously he can’t be older than me. I have never been with a man older than me since my 20’s. Just worked that way but now, well, ahhh, hmmm........most are dead anyway.
LOL...and the winner of the best response goes to......positively4you. That was great.

You just need to find you some strapping young buck and teach him what life is all about.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


SecretAgent_BJ 98T  
87 posts
9/17/2018 3:44 pm

I used to be 99. Then when I hit 100 the Fuck Locally Social Sex finder system had a Y2K moment and stopped acknowledging my presence so my profile, new pics, etc were no longer being shown. So I had to become younger again to appease the Fuck Locally Social Sex finder software.


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 3:50 pm

    Quoting dub11012:
    I don't have a set age range, but am generally attracted to people who are fit (for whatever their age), hwp and comfortable in their own skin. Confidence goes a long way, and I'm old enough, now to understand how the body (and its sexual responses) change over the years, sometimes in wonderfully surprising ways, sometimes . . . less so!
Yeah, age seems to be one of those things that hits us all a little differently. I'm in better shape now then when I was in my 30's.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 3:58 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    I think distance is a big factor and bigger than age. I tend to prefer women within about 10 years either way. However there are some about 15 younger here that might be interesting if they were available.

    I got together with a woman from here who was 20 years younger. She contacted me after I looked at her profile we talked and she wanted to meet. We both knew it was just going to be a physical one time thing. It was but it was fun.

    The song "Glory Day's" just came on - oddly appropriate.
I can't argue your first point in the slightest. I had a S-LTR with a lady on here, that was a lot younger than me. Long distance too...for a time. Not sure which part if either actually sabotaged the relationship.

I could see if it's just physical, age not really being a big deal. I was there for about 13 years.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


pagancountrygirl 60F
3465 posts
9/17/2018 4:02 pm

My age range goes down to around 50 and someone close to that age, I usually just cringe when they contact me. I also don't want to go over about 67 or 68. But in your case, I'm may have to re-think that! You look very good for your age And we're less than 1700 miles apart. Hmmm....

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Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 4:06 pm

    Quoting SecretAgent_BJ:
    I used to be 99. Then when I hit 100 the Fuck Locally Social Sex finder system had a Y2K moment and stopped acknowledging my presence so my profile, new pics, etc were no longer being shown. So I had to become younger again to appease the Fuck Locally Social Sex finder software.
haha, that's actually something I hadn't thought about. I have seen some on here over 100. Wonder if it's just a flip to the three digits that screwed it up. It is Fuck Locally Social Sex finder , if there's a bug, they'll find it.

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Tmptrzz 55F  
50137 posts
9/17/2018 4:06 pm

It just amazes me what people will send you in the mail. And yes you look younger than you are which is a good thing. I get that all the time, and you know age is something that I have on my profile as I don't need any little boys as I already raised two myself. They have to be at least 30 or older and none over 60 as I got that too..

I hope you have a great week..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 4:10 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    My age range goes down to around 50 and someone close to that age, I usually just cringe when they contact me. I also don't want to go over about 67 or 68. But in your case, I'm may have to re-think that! You look very good for your age And we're less than 1700 miles apart. Hmmm....
See that sounds reasonable on the age gap. Thanks for the compliment. It's the fountain of youth water, good diet, plenty of exercise..and the fact that Fuck Locally Social Sex finder lets me just make it up as I go along. I might just turn it back on my birthday and stay at 96.

Then maybe some of you fine ladies, could hurry up and catch up with me.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


BeverD829 47F  
125 posts
9/17/2018 4:27 pm

I don't have an age preference this time around . But the first time I was a member I stated no one more than 2 years younger than myself . Also I had set distance as a factor . I met a couple of men over the first year both older , within New England . It was what it was , still good friends with both .

It was then I decided I needed to rethink what it was I wanted . So instead I started talking with a man 7 years younger , it was going to be just an online thing . No calling , no texting , no camming , no meeting . Those boundaries didn't stick . We were a couple for four years despite age , and distance . We did part ways , but just this past January he walked back into my life . The distance is no longer an issue , and I don't think about his age . Everything with him is simply natural , and easy .

who knows exactly what you need could be right there in front of you ; you just never looked that close .

now just for you

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Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 4:31 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    It just amazes me what people will send you in the mail. And yes you look younger than you are which is a good thing. I get that all the time, and you know age is something that I have on my profile as I don't need any little boys as I already raised two myself. They have to be at least 30 or older and none over 60 as I got that too..

    I hope you have a great week..
Well thanks, but not a lot of people on the site. Think only one on the blogs actually knows my real age. LOL. Maybe, I'm 26 and just look horrible for my age.

By the way, like your new profile pic.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 4:38 pm

    Quoting BeverD829:
    I don't have an age preference this time around . But the first time I was a member I stated no one more than 2 years younger than myself . Also I had set distance as a factor . I met a couple of men over the first year both older , within New England . It was what it was , still good friends with both .

    It was then I decided I needed to rethink what it was I wanted . So instead I started talking with a man 7 years younger , it was going to be just an online thing . No calling , no texting , no camming , no meeting . Those boundaries didn't stick . We were a couple for four years despite age , and distance . We did part ways , but just this past January he walked back into my life . The distance is no longer an issue , and I don't think about his age . Everything with him is simply natural , and easy .

    who knows exactly what you need could be right there in front of you ; you just never looked that close .
See here we go again with the distance thing. I've been all over the distance topic lately. On here and in my head. Having to give it a lot of thought, but at least my age parameters aren't having to be questioned.

I agree a lot with your last few lines. If it's easy, just fits like a glove. Then no reason age should be a factor. And I've said the same thing to myself before. Sometimes we look so hard, we miss the things right in front of our face.

Great response, thanks.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


tresennui 63F  
2239 posts
9/17/2018 4:39 pm

Kinda remember commenting about a profile age in the 90s before...you? When I first joined the site and was just looking for fun (hopefully, more than a fuck buddy can be fun too) I didn’t care about age. My kids are 40ish. Sorta creepy to me to be screwing around with someone around their age. And a man in his twenties??? I have an 18 year old grandson.

I can see why your fake age garners attention. It makes it seem like you have a sense of humor. You do not take this too seriously.

Distance is a big criteria for me, especially since I am not looking for someone to hook up with once or twice and not plan to see very often.

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Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 5:01 pm

    Quoting tresennui:
    Kinda remember commenting about a profile age in the 90s before...you? When I first joined the site and was just looking for fun (hopefully, more than a fuck buddy can be fun too) I didn’t care about age. My kids are 40ish. Sorta creepy to me to be screwing around with someone around their age. And a man in his twenties??? I have an 18 year old grandson.

    I can see why your fake age garners attention. It makes it seem like you have a sense of humor. You do not take this too seriously.

    Distance is a big criteria for me, especially since I am not looking for someone to hook up with once or twice and not plan to see very often.
Might have been me..

I'm with you on the age thing. Yeah I'm a guy, we can all be horn dogs at times. But when they even get close to my kids ages, I'm just like..ummm no.

I try not to take myself too seriously on here or in life. Maybe that's what keeps me young.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


pocogato12 66F  
22826 posts
9/17/2018 5:07 pm

This post made me really snicker. I am one of the few who wants to know who the person is, inside and out, how they tick, what makes them laugh,what in life is serious, what have we in common to talk about or explore in many venues so I very rarely look at age unless the initial communication is poor in structure or grammar or just plain tacky. Those "chats" and emails know no age bracket. Si maybe i need to become 101 LOL and still hot air balloon all the way to Texas

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BiggLala 46F  
23365 posts
9/17/2018 5:53 pm

I don't list an age range on my profile, just use my cupid preferences. The bottom of my range is lower for strictly physical situations (of which there have been 1 or 2); 21 is my minimum as I don't have those 'my kid's age' hangups. However, if considering something more than just physical, but less than commitment--which seems elusive here--I'd prefer someone 38-50. Yeah, kind of a narrow range.

Of course, distance is always an issue, but that provides for easier decision making...it's an automatic 'no'.

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Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 5:53 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    This post made me really snicker. I am one of the few who wants to know who the person is, inside and out, how they tick, what makes them laugh,what in life is serious, what have we in common to talk about or explore in many venues so I very rarely look at age unless the initial communication is poor in structure or grammar or just plain tacky. Those "chats" and emails know no age bracket. Si maybe i need to become 101 LOL and still hot air balloon all the way to Texas
Just from reading your posts..I could say that doesn't surprise me in the least. You're a well grounded lady, who I would assume, just knows what she wants. And doesn't accept anything less.

I'll be waiting on the ballon in the back yard.. Give me a heads up when you get close. I'll make us some bbq

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Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 6:05 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I don't list an age range on my profile, just use my cupid preferences. The bottom of my range is lower for strictly physical situations (of which there have been 1 or 2); 21 is my minimum as I don't have those 'my kid's age' hangups. However, if considering something more than just physical, but less than commitment--which seems elusive here--I'd prefer someone 38-50. Yeah, kind of a narrow range.

    Of course, distance is always an issue, but that provides for easier decision making...it's an automatic 'no'.
See, while I set my age range for 10 either way, I've tended to end up within 5 or so in the past few years. So I don't think its all that narrow .

The distance thing is still being measured in my head. And I'm getting screamed at by both sides of my argument. haha.

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Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 6:07 pm

Have you noticed that a good number of us...me included, tend to be more open towards a larger age gap lower than we are higher. I think when I first joined I used a formula of 1/2 my age plus 7. But didn't go more than 7 years above my age.

Interesting.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


BiggLala 46F  
23365 posts
9/17/2018 6:13 pm

    Quoting Platosgames:
    Have you noticed that a good number of us...me included, tend to be more open towards a larger age gap lower than we are higher. I think when I first joined I used a formula of 1/2 my age plus 7. But didn't go more than 7 years above my age.

    Interesting.
This is going to sound...uhhh....a bit shitty of me, but the reason the lower end of my age range is larger is due to physical abilities. Younger men, in general, are more able to have the type of sex I prefer (not that some older men cannot). That's why I'm willing to go as low as 21 for something strictly physical, but even being with a 20-something has been rare.

I don't know why others have a larger gap on the lower end, but that's why I do. Just observation based on my experiences.

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Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 6:47 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    This is going to sound...uhhh....a bit shitty of me, but the reason the lower end of my age range is larger is due to physical abilities. Younger men, in general, are more able to have the type of sex I prefer (not that some older men cannot). That's why I'm willing to go as low as 21 for something strictly physical, but even being with a 20-something has been rare.

    I don't know why others have a larger gap on the lower end, but that's why I do. Just observation based on my experiences.
Ok...well you know you're gonna have to explain that one...LOL What physical abilities would you be needing there ? haha

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BiggLala 46F  
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9/17/2018 7:02 pm

    Quoting Platosgames:
    Ok...well you know you're gonna have to explain that one...LOL What physical abilities would you be needing there ? haha
Younger men tend to have shorter refractory periods to be able to go several rounds, every 20-30 minutes over the course of a few hours.

Don't get me wrong...some time spent with foreplay is great, but I find older men tend to want 30+ minutes of foreplay, and then try to impress with their stamina of sex for an hour plus straight. I can't do foreplay for too long and an hour or more of constant sex is uncomfortable. It might not be uncomfortable were I multi-orgasmic (immediate back-to-back orgasms).

Think of me like the RPMs in your car or a pressure gauge. I can only get aroused (in the red) to a point, and if I don't have sex and orgasm, that pressure deflates and I lose arousal for a long while. And, no...orgasm solely from oral or manual stimulation does not satisfy me.

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Platosgames 96M  
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9/17/2018 7:27 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Younger men tend to have shorter refractory periods to be able to go several rounds, every 20-30 minutes over the course of a few hours.

    Don't get me wrong...some time spent with foreplay is great, but I find older men tend to want 30+ minutes of foreplay, and then try to impress with their stamina of sex for an hour plus straight. I can't do foreplay for too long and an hour or more of constant sex is uncomfortable. It might not be uncomfortable were I multi-orgasmic (immediate back-to-back orgasms).

    Think of me like the RPMs in your car or a pressure gauge. I can only get aroused (in the red) to a point, and if I don't have sex and orgasm, that pressure deflates and I lose arousal for a long while. And, no...orgasm solely from oral or manual stimulation does not satisfy me.
I was wondering if that's what you were talking about. Maybe I'm different, but I have more control now then when I was in my twenties or thirties. It's a lot easier for me to time it to match where my partner is. And I'm a hell of a lot better figuring out where she is , than I was at 20 . hahaha.. Not sure I even noticed at that age.

The rest of it makes perfect sense. I was in a relationship with a lady like that. If she got going, multiple orgasms. We'd just keep going till she stopped. But like you..if she didn't get there while she was "in the red". We might as well stop and go grab something to eat. She basically needed to start over.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


twood1600 53M
76 posts
10/6/2018 2:01 pm

I have always had a thing for mature much more mature I lost my virginity to a gal almost 60 years my senior so 70 plus still gives me a hardon She was wonderful


Platosgames 96M  
1514 posts
10/7/2018 6:21 am

    Quoting twood1600:
    I have always had a thing for mature much more mature I lost my virginity to a gal almost 60 years my senior so 70 plus still gives me a hardon She was wonderful
Well that's just a big ole age difference there. I guess it's right, to some age is just a number.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


author51 55F  
62171 posts
10/9/2018 8:18 am

The woman who actually thought you were 96 seems like a gullible one.Or just young....lol. I have always had an age requirement.When I was meeting they had to be no younger than 35 and no older than 60. My oldest is almost 30 and feel for me personally, it was not right to play or date someone close to my oldest child's age.Robbing the cradle is not something I do. I have a hard time with being 8 years older than my lover.Like a really hard time with the age factor...I do not look my age in person yet and especially becoming a Grandma this summer made me finally realize, I really am 55.....lol.

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Platosgames 96M  
1514 posts
10/9/2018 3:23 pm

    Quoting author51:
    The woman who actually thought you were 96 seems like a gullible one.Or just young....lol. I have always had an age requirement.When I was meeting they had to be no younger than 35 and no older than 60. My oldest is almost 30 and feel for me personally, it was not right to play or date someone close to my oldest child's age.Robbing the cradle is not something I do. I have a hard time with being 8 years older than my lover.Like a really hard time with the age factor...I do not look my age in person yet and especially becoming a Grandma this summer made me finally realize, I really am 55.....lol.
Yeah, I set it at 96 so it would be pretty obvious it wasn't my real age. LOL

You're lucky. My older daughter made me a grandpa when i was in my late 40's. Hated the thought of anyone calling me grandpa. Luckily one of my son's came up with Pappy. I can live with that, and now there's 5 of them calling me pappy.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


author51 55F  
62171 posts
10/10/2018 12:51 am

    Quoting Platosgames:
    Yeah, I set it at 96 so it would be pretty obvious it wasn't my real age. LOL

    You're lucky. My older daughter made me a grandpa when i was in my late 40's. Hated the thought of anyone calling me grandpa. Luckily one of my son's came up with Pappy. I can live with that, and now there's 5 of them calling me pappy.
Lucky you.I can not wait to have more Grand babies.. I told my daughter she had to wait until I was 55 as I felt I was way too young to be a Grandma prior that.She listened well. I have two sons in their mid 20's but neither boy is in a serious relationship so it may be a while before they have children..It may be all up to my daughter who is the oldest and the only married one to continue having babies.. I would love to be called Glamma actually....lol.

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


LustingInDeLoops 56F  
211 posts
10/10/2018 8:15 pm

I think that poor woman had a little too much space between her ears to even think that could be your real age. Thanks for sharing the story though; it gave me,a good laugh.

I didn't select any age range but realized after way too many guys in their 20's were contacting me, that I better change it. I go 45 to 65 now.

My stories are mainly fiction, bringing fantasies to life for friends and I. Some is drawn from personal experience, most from my imagination. Love my erotic imagination.


Platosgames 96M  
1514 posts
10/11/2018 12:51 pm

    Quoting LustingInDeLoops:
    I think that poor woman had a little too much space between her ears to even think that could be your real age. Thanks for sharing the story though; it gave me,a good laugh.

    I didn't select any age range but realized after way too many guys in their 20's were contacting me, that I better change it. I go 45 to 65 now.
I've met some people in their 80s that still looked pretty good. But 96? Come on , I made it as obvious as I could. LOL

Yeah, I think 10 years either way will be my choice, once I'm done taking a break from looking.

Thanks for posting.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


champ3702 50M
19 posts
10/12/2018 10:17 pm

I agree man I hate getting older


Platosgames 96M  
1514 posts
10/13/2018 12:13 am

    Quoting champ3702:
    I agree man I hate getting older
I met a guy this week that's like my new "hero" Dude is 89 years old. Looks like he's maybe 70. Still works. Was climbing a ladder on one of the jobsites. Has a grip like a vise. hahaha

I won't go quietly into the night. I'll fight it the whole way.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


qyxx 61F  
3347 posts
10/14/2018 6:50 pm

I do not actively search. I would love to chat and text with someone, perhaps even more. But most of the men on here (I can't get into the young ones) are into playtime right away and I am not there. Also distance is a huge factor for me as well

Q.


Platosgames 96M  
1514 posts
10/15/2018 6:07 am

    Quoting qyxx:
    I do not actively search. I would love to chat and text with someone, perhaps even more. But most of the men on here (I can't get into the young ones) are into playtime right away and I am not there. Also distance is a huge factor for me as well
I'm pretty much the same these days. Not looking at all at the moment.

But yeah the distance thing really kills me.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


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